Abuamerican's Guide to Vetting Women

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Imagine... you just got home from a hard shift at work. As you walk in the door you find your overweight wife sprawled on the sofa watching reality TV. It looks like she’s been there all day. She says “oh hi honey, nice to see you. Hey, the trash needs to be taken out, could you handle that please?”. As you look at this fat slob you feel trapped. She had seemed so nice and slim when you two first met… how did you get stuck in this marriage...

Smash cut to the house down the street… the man of the house is lying back in his chair after getting home from work and eating a meal that has been prepared for him. He looks up to see one woman cleaning up the dishes while another massages his feet. “Welcome home baby, how was work?” He hears the sound of little kids’ feet running around. A healthy, happy family home.

What is the difference between these two men?

The second man is not smarter than the first. He did not work harder than the first. He is not richer than the first.

Actually, the two men are identical in every respect except for ONE key difference.

The second man had the correct information. He knew what to look for and chose his women with care. The first man was flying blind and chose poorly.

My name is AbuAmerican, and that second man... is me.

I’m a proud American and Muslim with a knack for living with multiple women under one roof.

Over the past couple of decades, I’ve had 11 different wives, usually living with 2 or 3 together at the same time. In total, I have fathered 9 children with 3 different women. I have never had any legal trouble with any of these women, I am still actively involved in the lives of my kids, and I remain on good terms with my exes to this day.

I’ve also personally coached hundreds of men and helped them to improve their relationships with women. I’ve saved marriages and taught men how to choose the right kind of woman that fits into their life vision.

I believe that the biggest problem facing men in the West today is finding a good woman. It seems like it’s getting harder and harder to find them… but I assure you that good women are still out there. You just need to know what to look for.

Most men would be envious of this kind of success.

But the truth is, it’s actually simple. When you know how.

I attribute my success to a highly refined Vetting System which I have developed over years of hard-won experience, which has allowed me to cut through the dross and attract quality women who are willing to get on board with my vision and be fully part of my team.

For years I kept things private between me and my clients. It wouldn’t have been fair to them to give the information out for free, and besides, we didn’t want too many other men getting in on the action.

But over the past several years I’ve watched in dismay as the West has declined into promiscuity and degeneracy, and it has become harder and harder for good men - be they Muslim or non-Muslim - to find good women.

My heart goes out to these guys and I reluctantly came to the conclusion that it was time for me to give good men the weapons they need to effectively defeat degeneracy and feminism.

Over the past year I’ve obsessively summarised, distilled, and refined this information into a simple Vetting Guide that any man can follow so he can avoid wasting time with online thots and learn what to look for in a woman to ensure marital success.

If you are ready for this knowledge, join the hundreds of men I’ve helped who are now enjoying happy marriages, and hit the “I want this” button to get instant access to my Vetting Guide.

Armed with the right know-how, even in 2020 I believe any man can still find a good woman (or four) to be his long term partner and to raise a traditional family with.

With the right tools and techniques, it’s even possible to take almost any woman and convince her to follow you in adopting a more traditional and submissive role.

But be careful. These techniques are powerful.

If you are looking to learn how to smooth talk your way into meaningless sex with an endless succession of trashy, low-quality women, this guide is NOT for you.

My system is for the man with traditional values who is serious about finding one or more quality women and starting a family with her.

It doesn’t matter if you are a Muslim, Christian, or atheist… the fundamentals of women are the same the world over. You deserve a woman in your life who is:

  • Loyal
  • Submissive
  • Family-oriented
  • Supportive
  • Ready and willing to cook, clean and ****

It’s not too much to ask, is it? The truth is, women like this are everywhere, and surprisingly common. But ONLY if you know the secrets of how and where to look.

Now, more than ever, it’s imperative that men are given the tools they need to attract the good types of women while filtering out the bad ones who will trap you into toxic relationships, destroy your life or cause you legal problems.

In short, you deserve a woman who makes your dick hard - not your life.

This guide is packed full of info at 130+ pages and will show you:

  • How to instantly spot the “toxic” women who will cause you legal trouble and prevent you from seeing your children
  • How to tell if a woman is going to be a good and caring mother
  • What to look for on her social media to instantly find out if she is a good girl or an e-thot
  • Which red flags indicate she could be an expensive divorce case in the making
  • My step-by-step guide that any man can follow that will keep a woman interested past getting the lay/bang
  • How to avoid becoming her PAP (poverty alleviation program)
  • A comprehensive list of hard requirements any man should keep in mind to ensure he attracts a woman suitable for a traditional “male breadwinner, female housekeeper” relationship
  • How to spot gold diggers
  • What it means when she keeps her Instagram “private” instead of “public”
  • How to avoid getting stuck in the “friend zone”
  • Why it’s important to maintain “legal leverage” over your woman
  • The one major mistake that almost all men make with women which is ruining their chances for a happy long term relationship
  • The “flip the script” method that switches things up so that YOU are the one screening HER rather than the other way round
  • How your “subconscious signals” might be preventing you from finding the type of woman you really want
  • The ONE time it is acceptable to engage with a single mother, and how to make sure she is truly attracted to you and not simply looking for “beta bux” to pay for her offspring
  • Many real-life chat examples and screenshots of the vetting process in action
  • How to avoid becoming her “Instagram boyfriend” and instead have her take photos of you so you can attract more women into your life
  • The one cardinal rule that you must not break in order to ensure your woman stays loyal and doesn’t cheat on you
  • The six different types of women in the western world and how to identify which one she is
  • The basic bar that any woman should meet before being considered for a relationship
  • How to avoid time wasters and cut through the garbage to find a woman online who is actually interested in you for a serious relationship/marriage prospect
  • … and much, much more

If you are ready to learn all this and more, join the hundreds of men I’ve helped who are now enjoying happy marriages, and hit the “I want this” button to get instant access to my Vetting Guide.

I’ve spent decades accumulating this knowledge and kept it mostly to myself, shared only with a few members of my most trusted inner circle.

Until now.

Included in this guide are golden nuggets of information that will show you how to:

  • Avoid an expensive divorce
  • Save $100,000s in legal and child support fees
  • Never allow a woman to cut you off from your kids

Very few men in the world have had the kind of success that I’ve had with women, but the truth is that there are really just a few simple tricks that, once you know them, will allow you to effortlessly attract the right type of women into your life.

I typically charge $1500+ for a one-hour online consultation and there are plenty of men out there who are glad to pay it.

However, I am aware that not all men can afford a personal consultation with me.

This is why I have distilled my knowledge into this guide, so every man can get access to the information he needs to find a traditional woman and start a family with her. It just feels like the right thing to do.

By making this investment in yourself you are showing that you are serious about finding the right kind of woman who will enhance your life and allow you to live your vision of starting a happy nuclear family.

You will learn how I vet women for long term suitability. You’ll learn the tools you need to choose a woman who will complement your life, rather than try to compete with you. And you’ll learn how to stop wasting time on dating apps and find a woman who will support your mission and life vision.

Upon purchase, you will receive my comprehensive Vetting Guide as well as access to my personal email so you can ask me any questions you may have. You will also enjoy lifetime access to updates and revisions of the course so you are always armed with the most up-to-date information.

Join the hundreds of men I’ve helped who are now enjoying happy marriages, and hit the “I want this” button to get instant access to my Vetting Guide now.

Testimonials for AbuAmerican

"You changed my thoughts"

Before I married my wife, no elders sat me down and gave me the 411 about women and I just went into marriage blindly. But, wallah Allah is my witness, you changed my thoughts. And I pray Allah rewards you for what you do.

"Golden advice"

I decided to buy a 45-minute one-on-one phone session with this brother, and I explained my situation and he was able to coach me exactly what to do and what to say to regain "frame" in my relationship. [...] AbuAmerican provided me with golden advice to regain my frame in the relationship and empower me as a man. Believe it or not, my wife respects me more after following his advice.

"You massively over-delivered"

I really enjoyed the consultation, this stuff we talked about will definitely help out a lot in my future relationships. We were able to iron out lots of issues in my communication with girls. You definitely know your stuff and you actually know how to put all the theory in practice. [...] You massively over-delivered.

  • You'll get my comprehensive Vetting Guide (130+ pages) in PDF and ePub formats, as well as exclusive access to my personal email in case you have questions about the material. You will also enjoy lifetime access to updates and revisions of this course.

  • You'll get my comprehensive Vetting Guide (130+ pages) in PDF and ePub formats, as well as exclusive access to my personal email in case you have questions about the material. You will also enjoy lifetime access to updates and revisions of this course.


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